Thank you both, though I am partnered up with a kid on the way so the love connection may have to... erm... wait! Wish I was a writer - damn sight more interesting than trudging into a central London office every day.

OK, the duffing feedback is not going very well is it? Either people are too afraid to admit they prefer cocoa and Midsomer Murders to Aftershocks and night buses or I have misjudged the forum users. We'll see. Come on, someone must be harbouring a secret duffing pleasure. This is the place to admit to it.