I'm sure you do, Roz. My point is that someone pays for the childcare somewhere along the line. Either I work and pay someone else to do it, or one parent supports the other. I know (hope) Brian had his tongue in cheek when he refered to nannies as servants, but I consider what I do as very valuable and I wouldn't
begrudge someone £40k a year for doing the same. I suspect my husband would think it a bargain compared to what I cost him.