So I suppose it's not at all selfish to have children, go to work and not look after them yourself, then also expect nursery facilities within walking distance of home in a quiet part of Forest Hill. I can understand folk who want a decent home, children etc, have to work hard for it and make sacrificies, but there is a balance and it seems that certain voices on this board feel that their rights come before anyone elses and are sounding rather selfish themselves.